Sunday, March 14, 2010

old friends

For anyone out there who knew me way back when I was but a lass of 16 or younger, this is for you:

You likely don't know how much your friendship meant to me, but I look back upon our time together so fondly. Those carefree days in sunny Florida will always occupy a special place in my heart.

After middle school I only had the one year of high school. And when I moved to Mississippi, I was practically an adult by the time I got settled here. Beyond what I knew at LMCS and DBHS, I never had the formative, rite-of-passage experiences that most American teenagers share: prom, spring break adventures, the shared anxiety of awaiting college acceptance decisions, and those last bittersweet weeks of senior year.

I have no regrets as to how my life unfolded, but so it goes that my middle school friends and my 9th grade friends remain so dear to me in my memories. The times we had and the experiences we shared, while seemingly mundane or silly or fleeting, will always be special to me.

And even though my role in your lives has likely been much smaller than your role in my life, please know that I'll never forget you. I wish you all the best, and I'll always be grateful for your friendship.

2 comments:

Eugenia said...

I know you are probably referring more to your FL friends... but I have known you since way before you were 16. :) And your friendship is probably the one that I now hold dearest to my heart. The summer days we spent in FL, TN, and MS are some of my most precious memories. Thanks for being my kindred spirit. :)

J.K. Hammack said...

Thanks for being my kindred spirit, too! (But you're right, I was feeling nostalgic for old FL friends when I wrote this...)